… In the learning. Here you are trusting a situation, assessing progress, making it steps by steps, your mind and spirit into it. And pang, just like that, a slap in your face… A comment completely unexpected telling you your initial assumptions about how to trust the situation are not accurate. And the slap hurts. It threw you off balance. You’re hanging there looking to ground yourself again. And that new grounding can only happen with the learning. The positive learning of the situation. A beautiful statement starting with ‘I’, written in the affirmative and the present tense. Keep at it.
At times, people need you to be someone else to credit their own shortcomings, they wrap you in this heavy ill-fitting coat, giving meaning to your actions rather than asking questions. Hang in there, they may be afraid to learn, you are not.